Should I tell him

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-06-2005
Should I tell him
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Sun, 03-04-2007 - 12:06am

I have this guy friend and I think I am starting to feel something more for him. I have been thinking about him alot lately. The only problem that I have is that he has a girlfriend. Do I tell him how I feel???. Or do I keep it to my self?

Please let me know.............

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Sun, 03-04-2007 - 9:45am
You keep it to yourself for the time being. You continue to be nice and courteous to him. In the event that he breaks up with said girlfriend, you can discuss your feelings and interest level.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-07-2007
Wed, 03-07-2007 - 1:47pm

Hello!

I hear you! Man this is tough. I would not tell him while he's dating someone unless he has given you clear signals that you're the one he wants to be with...and more than anything physical. If he seems happy with his gf, then this could be really bad for you and your relationship with him. I guess you have to look at their relationship and think if its serious or not, then think about if he's given you any clear signals. This way you could talk to him about that if there are signals. I hope this helps.

I could use your advice on my post: Should I tell him how I feel? Lol-kinda same name, different situation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 11:50am
He has a girlfriend. If they break up maybe you can revisit the issue but for now at least leave it be and get out there and try to meet people. Best of luck
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