Should I tell him??????

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Should I tell him??????
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Fri, 05-14-2004 - 12:35am
There's this guy I've very attracted to & I think he's got a girlfriend. But even if he doesn't, I'm not interested in being in a relationship now. I want to be single. Is it worth letting him know that I'm infatuated with him or should I keep it to myself? I wont gain anything out of it, but I'm afraid I'd regret not having told him. What would you do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 1:13am
why would you if you aren't interested in a relationship?

your post contradicts itself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 1:45am
Well, because I am interested in him. It's not the perfect timing for me, but I'm hoping if he feels the same, he can wait for a while.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 2:00am
why don't you wait until you are ready for one rather than saying, "I'm interested in you but not right now. Mind waiting?"

and if he has a girlfriend, don't.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 2:06am
But I'm afraid I won't be seeing him anymore and I don't want to miss on the opportunity. For the sake of argument, lets assume that I do want a relationship now but he's got a girlfriend, would it be ok to tell him?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2004
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 6:49am
It would be okay to further conversation but not to tell him how you feel at this point. I would try to find out if he has a girlfriend before I invest any more emotional interest.