"Should I Tell" -- Thanks, Everyone

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Registered: 03-27-2004
"Should I Tell" -- Thanks, Everyone
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Sat, 03-11-2006 - 2:54am

To all who answered my plea for help about my friend's creepy boyfriend, **thank you**!

Yeah, I'm definitely staying away from him in the future. And I do feel like I need to say something to Christy. But I feel like it could backfire on me badly -- I've seen these things before. There's going to be rage and pain flying around, and I'm worried that I'll be the easiest person for Christy to pin it on.

So, I'm seriously considering the indirect approach. ("I have this gut feeling...")

The guy is such a slime, I'm thinking their relationship may collapse soon w/out me having to say anything. But if not, I'm definitely not going to leave Christy to get her heart broken, thinking this guy really loves her. (I've been there before myself, as most of us have.)

Anyway, a huge warm furry Thank You to everybody for your help. :)

-Freya

anonymous
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 03-12-2006 - 12:13pm

Thing is, vibes are negotiable. The problem is that you're trying to be the good guy on all fronts. (I've been there...) Sometimes people will only see what's real if you tell them actually what happened. You may become the scapegoat, but at least she would know the real truth.


Kerry