Should I write him off now?
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Should I write him off now?
| Thu, 11-25-2004 - 9:38pm |
Hi, I haven't been on here in a while, I have been working at a department store for a couple of months. Anyway here is my dilemma (which may not be after Friday): This past Monday I was on my way to take care of some personal business. I got to a bus stop and was waiting there for quite some time when I turn around to see the most GORGEOUS man. He motioned for me to come over, which I did. He asked me for my name and phone number. I said "Now you've got my name and phone number, but I don't know who you are." So he told me who he was, and I asked him for his phone number, he asked me where I was headed and I told him. He offered me a ride, to which I declined (I never accept a ride from a man), I told him I was fine. He told me he was a fireman, I told him I was a sales associate. He asked me when could he call me, and i told him to call me later that night, but jokingly I said he wouldn't call me. He said he would never do that. Afterwards we said our goodbyes and went our separate ways. After I got to where I needed to be, a good 45 minutes went passed and my cell phone was buzzing (I had it on vibrate). When I flipped it open, it was him! I was shocked b/c a lot of guys I meet will tell me they will call and 10 times out of 10 won't. So I called him back as soon as I got out of the office where I was at but he had to hurry off to work, so I told him to give me a call before I had to go to work Tuesday morning. When he didn't call me Tuesday morning I left him a message, then one more on my break that same day. Now here is the dilemma I was referring to in the beginning...should I write him off because it is Thursday and I have not talked to him since we spoke the first time on Monday, should I give him the benefit of a doubt b/c he has such a crazy schedule, or should I call him tomorrow one more time, then write him off for good if I get his voice mail again? I know he is a fireman, but can a fireman be that busy that he can't pick up a phone to talk to someone he found quite attractive? (BTW, I read parts of "He's Just Not That Into You" and there is a lot of truth to why men do the asinine things that they do.)

You've called him twice...that's enough. He could be out of town for the holiday, which might explain why he's not calling but not why he didn't call when he said he was going to. In any event, 2 calls is one more than enough! The ball is in his court.
And PLEASE tell us you didn't give a total stranger your last name or a phone number that could be looked up!
Sheri
STOP CALLING HIM!!!!
Let him call you or else you will be doing all the chasing.