Showing up at his place uninvited?

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Registered: 05-29-2004
Showing up at his place uninvited?
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Sat, 07-17-2004 - 2:37am
I know, I know.....I miss my x of 8 months so damn much. He dumped me 4 months ago, and it was my fault. He made me such a stronger positive person and i was a mess when i met him. Now he is gone! This sucks so bad, the memories, thoughts, sexual moments run through my mind all damn day and it stresses me out. I see so many things out there and it reminds me of him. I seen him since he dumped me at the gym, and all he would do is put on his walkman and workout. I've tried to make eye contact with him, but it backfired. He does nothing or shows no feelings!!

The past month, he's been absolutely invisible. I heard he's joined another gym. This sucks so bad. I want him back and am willing to beg for his forgiveness for my actions. I dont want to call probably knowing he'll just screen my calls, nor return them.

I was thinking about showing up at his place unexpected? I've done it before but it was a few days or 1 week, as compared to 4 months. Im thinking he's probably moved on and someone has taken my place in his bed etc.. It would just hurt to see him with another female. This is driving me crazy. He cant even call to see if im alive =( He still has a huge place in my heart, but i dont think thats mutual with him. It's like he doesnt care!

What did i do - he seen me with my best friend who's a guy. He was driving my car with me in the passenger seat. My x seen me with him, and called me on my cell. I didnt answer the phone, but he left a message. I did not return his call knowing he would drill me with a bunch of questions. My best friend never wanted to meet my x, but the x wanted to meet him. It never happened, so my x assumed i was seeing this guy behind his back. I wish i could have both but it didnt work out that way =(


Edited 7/17/2004 2:46 am ET ET by fitnessgal805

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Registered: 06-13-2004
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 1:37pm
Definetly don't show up unexpected at his place--whether he's moved on or not--that is not a smart move. I know it's hard, but you need to let this go and move on. He is letting
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Registered: 05-17-2004
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 5:09pm
!!!!!He sounds like a jerk to me...so you are probably better off.!!!!!


BUT........Women are attracted to "JERKS".....Thats a fact!