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Shy guy?
| Sun, 03-21-2004 - 9:55pm |
Help! I need some insight! I met a man and we had instant chemistry and talked for about three hours straight - no awkward pauses. He's 38, I'm 30. We talked easily about life and work and similar interests. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. He then walked me home and when we said goodbye it was kind of awkward because it felt like we were on a date and he was dropping me off because we had been talking for so long. We both went in for a hug and I don't know if he was trying to smooch me or what. I gave him a peck on the cheek and he said he'd call me. He hasn't called and I've run into him a few times since then, but we have only exchanged pleasentries - no conversations. He seems kind of shy...Anyway, do you think he is shy or just not interested or what??!! I'm finding the situation perplexing, and it's driving me nuts. It was so obvious we had chemistry. Any thoughts on the situation would be great and/or is there anything I should/shouldn't do.
Thanks in advance!
C Mello

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Take care,
C Mello.
Take care, Mary Ann
The name of the book is "In the Meantime - Finding Yourself and the Love You Want" by Iyanla Vanzant. It really is excellent and has helped and guided me through the last 3 years of my life when things have been rough for me. It's not preachy, it just helps you understand yourself better and identifies patterns, etc. I'm not sure if you're a fan of Oprah, but the author used to be a regular guest on her show a few years back. Maybe check it out from your local library first if you're not sure about purchasing it. It really is great!
Take care and fill me in on your progress,
C Mello.
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