Shy men & 1st dates... sigh...
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Shy men & 1st dates... sigh...
| Mon, 02-09-2004 - 4:44pm |
Yesterday I had a wonderful 1st date with a really sweet guy who I have a lot in common with. He's known to be kind of shy, but yesterday everything was just great...the conversation flowed well, he had a lot of interesting things to say & was also interested in what I had to say. He smiled at me a lot (big turn on), made eye contact, etc... we laughed, ate, flirted, and chatted... the "vibe" was there...I could certainly sense that we were both interested, & I was in such a good mood due to how well it went.
Things were peachy like this until he dropped me off at my apartment building. As we approached my building in his car, he did a complete 180 and was suddenly super quiet, didn't look at me much and it seemed like he was eager to get outta there as fast as possible. We exchanged a little kiss on the cheek & that was it... I was surprised because he was so open and receptive (and giving) during the date...I made sure to tell him that I'd had a wonderful time with him & that I looked forward to doing it again...
Then I walked up to my apartment wondering if I'd accidentally sprayed on "Man Repellent" instead of perfume.
So is this guy a)totally not intersted in me, or b) shy & dreads that awkward moment at the end of the 1st date?
ciaociao
Tina
Things were peachy like this until he dropped me off at my apartment building. As we approached my building in his car, he did a complete 180 and was suddenly super quiet, didn't look at me much and it seemed like he was eager to get outta there as fast as possible. We exchanged a little kiss on the cheek & that was it... I was surprised because he was so open and receptive (and giving) during the date...I made sure to tell him that I'd had a wonderful time with him & that I looked forward to doing it again...
Then I walked up to my apartment wondering if I'd accidentally sprayed on "Man Repellent" instead of perfume.
So is this guy a)totally not intersted in me, or b) shy & dreads that awkward moment at the end of the 1st date?
ciaociao
Tina

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See if he follows up for another date or two. If he does, he certainly likes you! Take it slow, as it seems he wants to (in a physical way).
Good luck!
He said, "I liked you so much...I figured the more time I spent with you the more chances I'd have of screwing it up." ;-)
Just be patient and keep busy and distracted - waste of time to analyze.
YAY!!!!
Thanks for the advice, it's nice to have others to talk to when I'm agonizing over things.... :o)
Tina
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