shy...and mysterious??

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Registered: 04-14-2007
shy...and mysterious??
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Sat, 09-15-2007 - 12:34am
in school (i'm a senior in hs) i don't talk very much, but when I do i usually articulate myself well and carry myself w/ confidence. i want to seem more approachable to the opposite sex, but i'm studious, and wouldn't want it to get in the way of my school-work. I've rescently realized that in the past i've had commitment issues(being scared to date someone in the case that something better comes along), but i'm willing to change that, i just need a push and some tips :) any ideas would be wonderful. thank you.
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sat, 09-15-2007 - 5:14pm
The way to appear approachable to anyone is to smile, have an openness about you or your face and make eye contact.
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Registered: 04-14-2007
Sat, 09-15-2007 - 7:31pm
Thank you for your tip. I actually haven't dated that much due to 'commitment issues'..or whatever it may be. I went out with this one guy (valedictorian, athletic,a little above average looking, a gentleman, nervous personality..) but then i declined when he asked me out again b/c i didnt feel that we had chemistry. I just want to get myself out there more, and maybe even knwo how to get a feel for if a guy may be into me so I don't have to do all the work :)
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 4:24pm

Chemistry is an intangible kind of feel.