Sign a guy is still in luv with a ex????

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Registered: 04-16-2003
Sign a guy is still in luv with a ex????
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Thu, 09-23-2004 - 12:13pm
Can u please tell me some signs that a guy is still in love with his ex? A friend of mine has been seeing a guy for awhile and is worried that he is still in love with his ex cuz everytime he talks about her he gets all anxious and nervous. He says that he doesnt like her anymore and that she is just the mom to his daughter. SO if u have any thoughts please let me know for her. Thanks
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Registered: 08-07-2004
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 3:34pm
A huge red flag is someone that won't stop talking about their ex. I mean it's okay to talk about the past at first in a relationship--because the past defines who we are--but if it continues-=---then that shows he is not over her. Also--is the new relationship growing at a normal pace? I mean does he show interest? Does his actions and words match? etc. etc. Usually telling me once what happened between an ex and new guy is fine--as I do the same--but anymore then that is the key. And how long has it been since they broke up? A year at least is needed to make sure she is not the rebound.
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Registered: 04-16-2003
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 5:48pm
She says that he doesnt talk about her a lot. Just when he talks about stuff he's done in the past and alot of it usually includes her but he often changes the subject right away and he asks her questions about her day. Him and the ex broke up about six months ago but they see eachother often cuz they have a daughter and being apart of her life is very important for him.