Signs he's not over his ex?
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|Tue, 05-21-2013 - 9:55pm|
I have been dating a guy for about two months. This guy has only been divorced for about 9 months and I TOLD him, when we first started dating, that this concerned me because I believe that it takes at least two years (give or take a little) to get your ducks back in a row after a divorce. He assured me he's over his ex. This guy's ex cheated on him and within the past month so she married the guy with whom she had an affair. I didn't find this out from HIM but through a mutual friend.
The problem is, is that this guy I'm dating is still close to his ex in-laws and ex brother-in-law. His family hangs out with his ex's family. Since we've been dating I know that he loaned his ex brother-in-law a truck until he bought one of his own. He meets his ex brother-in-law for drinks after work. He has taken calls from the ex brother-in-law while we were out of town on a weekend trip. He has contacted his ex in-laws, IN FRONT OF ME DURING A DATE, to see if they are ok due to severe weather.
Although I appreciate how caring this guy really is.....I just can't help but feel awkward and see this as a RED FLAG that he's not ready and just using me as filler. What do I do? Do I say something? Do I just let it go because we don't have a big commitment? Do I just blow it off?
Any help would be appreciated!!!