Situation Update............
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Situation Update............
| Wed, 11-10-2004 - 2:02pm |
After considering what everyone has said on the board in response to my situation the past few days, I came to a decision. I sent the following email to him tonight....
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Thanks for replying to my email!
You can always come to me about anything and everything. I'm intentionally leaving the ball in your court as I know you have a lot to think about and figure out. I'm always willing to talk and hang out, just leaving initiation up to you so you can do your thing.
If you want to come get what was left behind here, just let me know!
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Now he knows he can come get his things, and that I'm stepping out. I'm betting some of you may not agree with this choice I've made, but it feels right to me, and I'm proud of my choice.
Hope you're all having a great day! Thanks!
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| Wed, 11-10-2004 - 5:48pm |
Good for you that you made up your mind. However, you message sounds like you'll be at his disposition whenever he wants to hang out or talk: "...I'm always willing to talk and hang out, just leaving initiation up to you so you can do your thing.." It's my view only.
| Wed, 11-10-2004 - 9:29pm |
If I can't hang out I won't. I just wanted him to know that I'd like to hang out with him, but he's the one that needs the alone time, and therefore he should decide how often he sees me. I can't guarantee that I'll be able to do whatever whenever, however. I wouldn't drop everything for him....... and I mean that!
