So about 5 months ago...
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So about 5 months ago...
| Thu, 09-27-2007 - 4:53pm |
There was this guy I liked. We'll I recently checked his myspace and I think he's single!!!! I want to talk to him. Basically, I meet him where he works and the minute we made eye contact 'sparks flew' : P Anyway, so I wrote him a letter saying that if he didn't have a girl friend then I'd love to talk or something, and I had my little sister and mom deliver the letter to him (I know that probably wasn't a good idea, but thats beside the point : P ) anyway, I soon found his myspace and saw that he was TAKEN! We'll that explained why I never got a response back b/c I even left him my number and myspace url. Anyway, I was just recently on his page and all the pics of he and his girl are off his page!! I'm pretty sure this means his single!!!!! So here are my questions: 1. Am I probably correct to think that if you REMOVE pics of your bf/gf, it probably means your single? 2. If you were this guy, we didn't know each other very well but we DEFINITELY had some chemistry the few times we saw each other, would you like if I contacted you on your myspace, out of the blue with something like "hey, whats up," or something? 3. How can I write to him without seeming 'creepy' I mean I want to get a response not have him thinking "God, won't she leave me alone!" : P 4. How can I make it so it's not akward, SINCE he got that letter months ago, I want to do this right! Help me out here people!! : ) Thank you so much!!!!

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Carrie
I wouldnt put much emphasis on his myspace profile because when a guy has a profile, he is looking for action even if he has a girlfriend, wife or whatever.
Hey Snafu......how have you been?
I agree that the people, guys and women, who are on line, myspace or otherwise, don't always give a true impression on their profiles. I have a myspace and it always says "in a relationship" whether Im in one or not. It's just a buffer from the crazies out there. I'm only on there for my friends and family who live far away. I've also dated guys who had a match.com profile while we were dating. Go figure! haha. I guess it depends on what is written on why they are there....friends, dating, etc. That would give her a better idea where his head was at.
I like Carries advice of let him go to her, just because at this point, if he is "single" again, it may be too soon for him to try another one-on-one relationship....especially with holidays coming up. Some guys tend to wait till after the holidays.
But, that being said, she could send him a Hello, happy halloween message or something to break the ice in a few weeks and test the waters. She can send a cute icon or something with the message.
Just a thought....
Hope you are doing well!
PATTY
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