So is he into me or what?
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So is he into me or what?
| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 2:33pm |
I think this guy is sending me totally mixed signals. We're both professional students and know each other from school. We've been flirting for a bit and last weekend we hooked up and he ended up spending the night at my place (we didn't have sex). He said he didn't want me to talk to my friends about it because he didn't want to start rumors (which struck me as odd). He got my number and promised to call, which he did a few days later and asked me to coffee the next night. I couldn't meet him at the time he wanted because I had a meeting, so he said to call him when it got out. It went *really* late but I still called him, got his voicemail and left a really low-key message saying we'd just gotten out and I was going home, but wanted to let him know I didn't forget to call, and said, give me a call if you want, or something along those lines.
I've seen him around school and we've chatted a few times but he has said nothing about the phone call. We both went to a party last night and I thought maybe something might happen there, but we only chatted (it went verrry late so he may have just been tired?). Again, no mention of my phone call or getting together or anything. So what gives? Is he interested? Marginally interested? Am I wasting my time fretting about this? Would it be really stupid to call him this weekend?
Thanks in advance!

Give it time and give him a chance to call. IN the mean time don't be just stuck on him. Eyes wide open - there are more fish in the sea.
Sounds like very
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