Some wisdom please!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2004
Some wisdom please!!
2
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 3:14am
I'm so tempted to contact my ex-boyfriend. I know I shouldn't. I need some encouragement and strong dissuasion. Help!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2004
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 7:01am
What would you accomplish from contacting him? Would it change the situation or just mean that you have to start over again, forgetting about him? How would you feel about yourself if you did contact him? Those are important questions to ask yourself. Only you can determine what is right for you and how contacting him or not will make you feel. Try not to do anyting that will insult your integrity or make you feel bad about the situation. Listen to your inner voice and follow it. Intuition is never wrong.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 2:04pm
Hey I know how you feel. Often times there is that little glimer of hope. I always feel stupid when i breakdown and call. I realize I feed into there ego and walk away with nothing. Good luck