SOMEONE I NEED HELP QUICK!

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Registered: 08-26-2004
SOMEONE I NEED HELP QUICK!
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Thu, 08-26-2004 - 5:23pm
OK THIS IS WHAT IS GOING ON MY BOYFRIEND WANTED TO TAKE A BREAK OR HAVE A LITTLE SPACE SO THAT WE COULD "REKENDLE"(SP?) OUR FRIENDSHIP WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 2AND1/2 YEARS ANYWAYS A WEEK AFTER WE BROKE UP HE STARTED SEEING THIS OTHER GIRL AND HE HAS ALREADY DONE STUFF WITH HER IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN... ANYWAYS HE CALLS ME EVERYDAY AND TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND THAT HE DOESN'T LIKE HER THAT MUCH BLAH BLAH BLAH HE CALLED ME TODAY TELLING ME THAT HE WAS GOING TO TELL HER TONITE HE COULDN'T SEE HER ANYMORE HE WAS CRYING HIS LITTLE EYES OUT ANYWAYS I LOVE THIS MAN WITH ALL MY HEART AND HAVE PICTURED US MARRIED W/ CHILDREN IN THE NEAR FUTURE BUT I AM SO CONFUSED RIGHT NOW SHOULD I GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE OR DO YOU THINK HE BLEW IT??? HELP ALSO HE SAYS THAT SHE GETS MAD WHEN HE TALKS TO ME THAT SOUNDS ALITTLE TO SERIOUS AFTER 1 WEEK???
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 08-26-2004 - 5:35pm
My question is: do you want to be with someone who dropped you when something else came along?

Do you think he really took a break to rekindle the friendship with you? I think he broke up with you to see if things would work out with the other girl, but my guess is that things aren't going well, so he's trying to get back together with you.

Is that who you want to be with?

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