Sorority Sister in trouble?

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Registered: 04-15-2004
Sorority Sister in trouble?
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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 2:39pm
About a year ago, a seemingly-nice guy from class invited me over to his apartment, but once we were there he tried to rape me. Luckily I was able to hit him and yell loud enough that I got away. After talking to my parents, we decided not to report him to the police, and I hadn't seen him until now. He's started dating one of my sorority sisters, and she seems happy and says he's a sweet guy. I don't want her to get hurt. Should I tell her about my experience with this jerk, or will I be butting into a happy relationship?
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Registered: 02-26-2004
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 3:13pm
You have no say whether you are "butting" into a happy relationship. All you can do as a friend is tell your friend your past experience with this guy, because she could very well be at risk. It is up to her to decide what to do with the information you give her.

I know people differ with the "ignorance is bliss" theory. I, however, am someone who would never hate a friend who came to me with something this serious, nor resent her for "ruining" my happiness.

You sound concerned enough to make me think you need to let her know. Good luck.