soulmate?

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Registered: 04-02-2004
soulmate?
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Thu, 06-22-2006 - 4:57pm
I broke up w/my ex boyfriend about 5 years ago...I know, a LONG time. We've been through ups and downs, thick and thin. Somehow, we still manage to maintain a good friendship w/each other as of today. Of course there was bitterness and hate from his side for a while. We have the same mutual circle of friends and this weekend we are going on a road-trip together as a group. Do you think I'm crazy? I often wonder if he's my soulmate? At my friend's wedding 2 years ago, he told my friends I was his soulmate. I've never met anyone like him before, and nobody compares to him. We get along very well together and just click. Every other guy I've ever met, things have never worked out and they all turned out to be jerks or losers, or I never felt a connection with. Do you think there is a possibility that he still may have a thing for me? Do you think it's possible for 2 people to have a chance even after 5 years?? We've never lost touch, which makes it easy. Am I silly? He is my first love ,and quite possibly my only love. I know he doesn't have a girlfriend. Should I have a talk w/him and let him know how I feel?
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Registered: 08-13-2004
In reply to: clouds77
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 8:51pm
I think you may definitely have a chance. Maybe both of you have learned and changed since your breakup, and the problems and conflict you had before would not happen any more. But it is also possible that it will not work. I think you should try, but also be ready to accept it if it doesn't seem to work out.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: clouds77
Fri, 06-23-2006 - 8:08am

clouds77...

Pianoguy thinks he answered this one already, but for the benefit of the newbies...here comes the rerun!

Have the talk if it'll give you 'peace of mind' (or closure)...but never lose sight of the fact that there's often a fine line between having a SOULMATE, as opposed to having a very good friendship?

Not every situation is interchangeable...nor should it be?

Pianoguy