status of relationship

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Registered: 10-17-2004
status of relationship
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Wed, 11-03-2004 - 9:12pm
How do you ask the status of "us" for a one month realtionship? Is it too much to ask if he can meet the parents?

The last thing I want to do is scare him away.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2004
Thu, 11-04-2004 - 7:54am
I've posted similar questions on this board and have gotten great advice. So I thought I'd try and give some. I think one month is too soon for both status and meeting the parents. I'm in a similar situation, but have been dating a guy for 2 months now. Things are going very well, but I haven't asked him the "status" yet, although I've thought about it. Last time we were together, he introduced me to his friends, so I felt that was a good sign that things are moving along at a nice pace. As for meeting the parents, I'm ready for him to meet mine, but I'm waiting for him to introduce me to his parents first. I guess I just feel comfortable letting him initiate these things, cause I feel the same as you, I don't want to scare him off!

Take your time and good luck!

Nikki