STILL WITH MY BOYFRIEND
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STILL WITH MY BOYFRIEND
| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 2:53pm |
HERE WE ARE STILL TOGETHER IT IS NOW AUGUST. AND WE'RE ARGUING. HE'S NOT RESPONDING TO WHAT I AM TELLING HIM. WE HAVE TO GET A PLACE TOGETHER. TIMES ARE HARD. BUT WE ARE STILL TOGETHER. HE'S STILL DRINKING, AND IN A SHELTER, AND THE HOUSING THAT I HAVE IS NOT TOO COOL. THIS HAS TO CHANGE AND SOON. I'M GETTING TIRED. WE CAMPED OUT IN A TENT FOR AWHILE IN THE NICE PARK BY THE LAKE 2 BLOCKS FROM WHERE I LIVED. BUT THE COPS WALKED UP IN US ONE NIGHT. AND SCARED THE HELL OUT OF ME. SO, IT'S NOT TOO EASY. I'M SURE LONELY WITHOUT HIM AROUND, DEALING WITH EVERYTHING. BUT I HAVE TO KEEP MYSELF GOING AS WELL. HE'S SUFFERING FROM DEPRESSION, AND MEDICATES HIMSELF, WITH ALCHOHOL. I TOLD HIME TO GET SOME HELP, HE'S NOT RESPONDING, I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE HIM, BUT WHAT AM I GOING TO DO???
Edited 8/19/2004 2:54 pm ET ET by ecc4
Edited 8/19/2004 2:54 pm ET ET by ecc4

Worry about you and how healthy you are so you can help others. And remember, helping others should feel good, not run you down into the ground.
Accept that no matter what you do for this guy he's not going to change. Move on and find someone who has goals, and works towards them- not clouded by addictions. Stop being a mother hen and go find someone who can spoil YOU. Find a guy who has the passions you do in helping others, and who can take care of you emotionally. Aren't you tired of being EVERYONE else's shoulder to lean on?
LINDA!