Strange relationship?
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| Sun, 12-10-2006 - 11:34am |
Hello!
I am currently seeing a guy that I met at work. He says he loves me but I don't feel like I love him. Well, I love him as a person. He is very caring and affectionate and thoughtful and helpful to me around my apt since I live alone due to a separation I am currently going through. The weird thing is, when I am with him I want to kiss him and hug him but yet I can't seem to say "I love you" and mean it the way he means it when he says it. We have fun together. Sometimes he gets on my nerves. We've been seeing each other for almost a year - going places together, hanging out together in my apt. which often ends up you know where. He lives two towns away and when he comes over he ends up staying over and we sleep together often not doing "anything" because I don't want to do anything I guess because I feel I shouldn't since I can't seem to say "I love you". He knows how I feel. But he's also confused because why do I want to kiss him if I don't love him?
I guess I'm not really totally physically attracted to him. I like a more "brawny-looking" type of guy. But why do I want to kiss him? I guess I want to have a relationship with him but not go "all the way". At least not "full force".
I'm very confused. I don't want to drop this guy altogether but maybe I should. But if I did I would be very lonely because I don't have much family around and a very small circle of friends. Plus he would be very upset if I dropped him altogether. He really loves being around me. He has lots of family around but he still wants to spend lots of time with me. He's always thinking of things for us to do together and places for us to go, etc.
I'm not sure what I am doing. Any ideas or thoughts or comments from anyone? Thanks, so much, in advance.
| Sun, 12-10-2006 - 4:35pm |
