supposed to leave tomorrow, help!
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supposed to leave tomorrow, help!
| Fri, 08-20-2004 - 1:19pm |
i wrote recently about how i have seen my ex (while i am currently in a committed relatioship)...my ex and i kissed, etc. etc. my current BF and i are supposed to leave for vacation tomorrow to visit his fmaily. i came down with strep throat and don't feel well, so i told him i might not be up for traveling on a plane, etc. i do have to admit though that i kind of want to see my ex again and that is a part of the reason i don't want to go. what i truly want is to let go of my ex and try to make this relationship with my current bf work. so, help do i go on the trip or cancel???
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| Fri, 08-20-2004 - 5:27pm |
I think until you can give your current BF your entire heart, you shoud no do anything serious like visiting the fam. You are being selfish and dishonest by continuing the relationship. Don't go on the trip if your heart's not in the right place. Obviously, you want to be with your ex.
| Thu, 08-26-2004 - 10:12am |
Well...just an update...my boyfriend and I just got back from vacation last nite and we had an unbelievable time. I am so glad I made the decision to go. It cleared up any confusion I may have had. I have come to understand that I will always hold a special place for my ex, and that I will probably always care for him. But I have moved on and and couldn't be with a better man. I won't risk that again. It was foolish and I was caught up there for a week or two. "I can see clearly now" and thank god! The only question I have at this point is...do i tell my ex I can no longer speak to him or just never call? He knows I was returning last nite, so I'm sure he is expecting a call. Keep in mind he dumped me after 4 years and never called me again...
