a talk with him_ was I right or wrong?

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Registered: 03-13-2004
a talk with him_ was I right or wrong?
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Sun, 08-15-2004 - 9:51pm
I have just talked with my bf about our relationship after 4 months together...but this relationship seems not normal to me. He only text messages to me when asked me out and sometimes during the week to ask how thing is going. I've been trying to give him more time and hope he would think about and will call me, but it seems like he does not want to. I have a bad feeling like an on-line dating and he does not want to talk with me. I think I love him a little bit, but i must be honest with myself and him that this is not the way of dating. IS IT RIGHT?

Today, I took whole effort that I kept for long long time....I spoke this out. I told him that I did not know why he did not ever call me, but only texted messages?.....he said he has been trying to have fun with the messages but I told him that while I wanted to hear his voice....and I think this is normal for a couple to talk on phone.... I CRIED WHEN I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT THIS.

I dont hope our relationship is getting better...may be after this talk we will never see each other? I will let him decide but whatever I told the truth at the bottom of my heart that I did not lie him about my feeling.

Could you please advise if I did right thing that I must do?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 12:39pm
rabitjoin...

If you try to talk with somebody...and the man basically IGNORES YOU...doesn't this indicate that he's not interested?

Texted messages aren't the foundation for a solid relationship.

DROP THIS TURKEY...NOW! No communication in any form. You are wasting your time.

Pianoguy