talking about house buying during a developing relationship

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Registered: 11-07-2003
talking about house buying during a developing relationship
Wed, 08-14-2013 - 6:39pm

Dear Dating Experts, I have been dating this guy for half a year and I really like him. He really likes me, too, and has said he loves me. I think it's vey likely we are going to be together. Even though we haven't voiced our commitment to each other, I feel it's very likely. I've always wanted to buy a home and now I want to take action. Plus I am going to buy a home anyway regardless of whether it works out not. Will it be a problem for the relationship if I start looking? Can I tell him that I want to look for a home, and if we end up together we can share it, but if it doesn't work out, I will just live in it myself.