Tell me this isn't true
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| Fri, 12-17-2004 - 10:22am |
Please tell me it isn't true that "all the good guys" are taken right after college. This can't be true. I'm 25, single, and having been dating like a horse's hound lately. I've been out with 7-10 guys over the past few months, and just not have been having any luck. I need to know that I still have good guys to find out there. Tell me all the ones in my age group are not either in married or in serious relationships. That's kind of a cliche isn't it? Thanks!
P.S. In general, the guys at my big state university were immature, selfish, and idiotic, at least at the age of 22 or 23, by the time they were graduating. Why the heck would I have wanted to have been engaged to one of them? All they were interested in was drinking and partying....am I just an odd bird? HOw can this be?


This is definately NOT TRUE!
There is something for you to consider given your age group.
I understand what you're saying and completely agree with it. I'm just so sick of hearing, "Oh...he's 28 and single??? Must be for a reason." Why do people make such assumptions? I don't think there is anything weird about being 25-32 years old and being single (male or female).
I do not understand why people live by this clichee "At our age, all the good ones are taken". Okay maybe some people do get married right after they graduate college, but some of those end up in divorce a couple years later. I'd rather grow and learn about myself and experience life before getting married, and I don't think it's odd for a guy to do the same. Therefore, I like to think that there are definitely tons of good guys my age out there.
Thank you. My mom tells me the same thing. :o)
Sometimes its easy to get insecure though. I guess I need to be more secure in myself.