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| Tue, 01-24-2006 - 10:23am |
I have a crush on a coworker at the restaurant I work at a few nights a week. We flirt like crazy, we have made out a few times and I can tell that he is "into me" but not sure how much he is? I have had coworkers tell me how shy he is, etc. Do you think I should ask him if he wants to do something one night this week if he is free? Or just let it go and just go with the fun flirty stuff and not take it so seriously, but I am falling for him and I don't like being vulnerable but I will never know how he really feels? I'm at a loss.

Thanks!
you can suggest grabbing coffee, somethnig casual, perhaps to discuss something you know he has expertise in. Guys like to feel they can be helpful and he'll be flattered and then once you're out hopefully he'll feel comfy and it will evolve more into a date without your feeling you've put yourself on the line too much.