Tells you to call him any time you want
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| Wed, 12-21-2005 - 8:41am |
What do you make of a guy who, when you meet him, even before you go out on your first official date, tells you several times to call him any time you want (The phone conversations last for about a week before the first date). He even tells you a time after which not to call him. When I wasn't sure what day I was able to make it for our first date, he told me to think it over and call him in a couple of days or to just call him a few hours ahead of time so he has time to get ready. I said I don't call people up at the last minute and told him I'd call in a day or two which I did to let him know when I'm available to go out.
So getting to the heart of the matter, I don't call guys in the beginning unless they specifically tell me to for a reason because I don't like to pursue. But we went out this Friday night, it's Wednesday morning and I wonder what's up since I haven't heard from him since and I thought the date went really well. I don't plan on calling him but am tempted given that he told me to if I feel like it. I know he has long workdays and he has guests coming to his home today who will stay there for the next couple of weeks. I also know that we probably can't go out any time this weekend since it's Christmas weekend but I think a call to let me know that he remembers me would be in line if he was truly interested in me. Do you think some men like having women pursue them and call them and if so, is this a good or bad sign? So far, he's done all the initiating and calling (except for that one time I called him) and that's the way I prefer it.
Edited 12/21/2005 9:24 am ET by ising101

I would let him call you. He will if he's interested in continuing to see you.
Sheri