Text Messages...And they ain't from me!
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Text Messages...And they ain't from me!
| Fri, 08-20-2004 - 7:02pm |
I've been with my man for a few months now and I'm so smitten with him! We both absolutely believe that we are it for each other - hooray for us!!!! He's recently divorced and I have respected his wishes to keep a low profile because he has a young son. However, there is a gal from his gym that has done the following in the past year: told him she's in love with him twice, brings him gifts to his new house, gives him wake up calls in the morning (even when he's at my house during the week - he's smart not to answer his phone or it would be Lorena Bobbit time all over again! lol!), she's recently filed for divorce, and she's been sending him a lot of text messages too. They've been friends for a couple of years now (going to the lake with friends from the gym, etc...) but I know his ex-wife wouldn't have tolerated this either. He's told gym girl that he's with me and has also told her that he doesn't see her the same way she sees him. Yet, the scene doesn't seem to change. Does anyone out there think she's "not right in the head"? Methinks, my man is doing something that on some level still "invites" her to contact him and that he hasn't nipped it in the bud like I would appreciate he would do. She's not a deal breaker for me, but I AM uncomfortable with telling him I want this behavior to completely stop because she's his "friend." However, I'm having a hard time waiting for her to get the picture.....and it's driving me nuts! Anyone care to dish any advice?

I agree with the previous poster... if he truly wanted her to stop contacting him, he would have told her to stop.
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