the thank you phone call?? do i?

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Registered: 12-15-2004
the thank you phone call?? do i?
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Wed, 12-15-2004 - 7:32pm
I had a GREAT first date last night. I thank him when he dropped me off at home and told him I had a great time. Do i do the day after phone call to thank him. I deff want to go out with him again but dont want to seem desprate or needey!! ADVICE PLEASE
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Registered: 11-03-2004
Wed, 12-15-2004 - 11:37pm

Do you have his email by any chance? I exchanged number and email with the guy that I am seeing now on our first date. After the date, I emailed him the next day just to thank him for driving me back. He replied and then called me a day later and made plans to see me. You will seem less overeager when you use email. But if you don't have his email, then give him a few days. If you don't hear from him for over a week, that probably means he is not interested.

This advice above is also suggested from Dating Doyenne's Dating 101:
"I encourage you to exercise restraint and not call him. But if you must make contact or you'll die, I suggest you use (but don't abuse) email."

You can read full article at:
http://www.ivillage.com/relationships/lovelessons/dating101/articles/0,,538840_561300-2,00.html

Good Luck!