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| Mon, 06-26-2006 - 7:31pm |
I got online this morning for a few to check my e-mail and then I went back to bed for a bit, when I woke up he sent me a mess. so we talked.
I will be careful, I know my post sounded like Im stilled intrested and I hope he changes his mind, blah bla blah....I know he wont, Im not going to push for it, bring it up again (and yes it was stupid on my part to say something like that after almost a month). I respect and accept what he said, but it doesn't mean I want to stop being his friend. Theres more to the story about why his ex got him upset-she started some trouble for him a few weeks ago. So I was just listening to him and told him if he wanted to talk that he could.
You're right piano guy I don't want to be his mother and "smother" him, just by getting to know a little more about him (not much but a little), I know what he's like in some ways. I will give him his space if that's what he's wanting, and when he's ready to talk again and hang like we have been then I will be there.
I just I value, my family, friendships, work, ect, ect. This is who I am-a very caring and compassionate person. Im sure in the long run it will get me into trouble. When it comes to being a friend, whatever happens you can't just up and bail out, you can't pass judgement on a person for what they've done in there past, choices they made/make. You know what I mean..lol I know I probably sound crazy, but I do know how to be a good friend.
Again thanks for your responces!

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I think that is wonderful, but you just need to ask if the guy is a good friend to you too, if he cares about you the same way. If not, then the relationship is not balanced and doesn't do either of you any good. But you can certainly give him some time to respond to your friendly feelings. Being good to people does sometimes evoke a response. (Usually him being good to somebody else, but does it matter, as long as he became a better person? And I am not joking.)