thanx

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Registered: 10-13-2004
thanx
Thu, 10-14-2004 - 1:46am
Thanx to all who answered. The relationship im in can be very difficult some days. We have known each other since we were 14 yrs old. We are now both in our 40's. I have uttered those dreaded words they hate to hear.All he said the last time was that " this cant be love because it will just mess things up. He is totally convinced that any type of sentiment like that will blow things apart. His home life really sucked as a child. Any chance that I will get over my feelings eventually? I havent said those 3 words now in about 2 yrs. I just havent been able to understand how if they are so happy with the friends with benefits situation, how they even consider being jealous? You would think that he would want me out of his emotional hair .... I know. Im grasping at straws here.

Bambie