think it's right or possible?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-10-2003
think it's right or possible?
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Mon, 09-20-2004 - 5:27pm
Do you think it's right to be in a relationship with someone (that you love) and to have feelings for someone whom you don't really know?

I have a bf who I love but I'm attracted to someone else who I have an interest in. Should I feel guilty?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2004
Mon, 09-20-2004 - 9:21pm
Being attracted to someone else makes you human. Acting on it is what makes you a slut. Of course other men seems wonderful and exciting when we're not involved with them. You're not seeing all the gross annoying things that he does. (Just like everybody else does.) The fantasy is always better than the reality. If your current situation with your boyfriend is otherwise good then think of this other guy like watching a sexy actor in a movie, purely entertainment. Don't beat yourself up over it and don't mistake it for reality.