Thinking Too Much into This

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Thinking Too Much into This
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Mon, 08-01-2005 - 2:11pm

I e-mailed several months ago about me being interested in this guy that I met while on vacation in Europe this past spring. Well he and I have been keeping in touch via e-mail. And in January I will be moving there ( Europe) for work. I am thinking too much into the fact that he may still be or was geniunelly interested when he said that he was several months ago.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Mon, 08-01-2005 - 4:20pm

Just go in with low expectations. Are you going to be near him in Europe? I know it is much easier to get around there with trains and everything, but if you are still going to be several hours away from each other, there is still a distance barrier - just a smaller one. Go in with the expectation of having a friend in Europe. Hopefully it will develop into more but only time can tell on that. If the interest is mutual, you will soon know but if you go in with a breezy, friendly attitude putting no pressure on him, you will be more attractive to him and anyone else that might come along. Who knows what will happen when you move there? You might find someone else, he might be dating someone by now.

Good luck and have fun.

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