This time its serious....
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| Sat, 03-13-2004 - 4:09pm |
I recently ran into an old fling of mine from last summer. I had never really considered going out with him because he didn't have a job and he didn't seem to have much drive. And he's sort of a wanderer, and that applied to all areas of his life. But when I ran into him, he got my number and I went to hang out with him and some of his friends that I also knew. I found out that since I've seen him he started going to classes, got his EMT, and is now in a firefighter training program. I've always found him very physically attractive, and he has a fun personality and great sense of humor, which I love! But now I'm looking at him in a more serious way, but I'm afraid he still might look at me as just a fling. In fact, his friends say that he usually looks at most girls that way unless they say otherwise. I'd really like to go on a date with, so I called him. It's really hard to get in touch with him because he's always in class or working or studying and he doesn't seem to good about checking his voice mail. And I always feel so awkward calling him a bunch of times. When I have gotten ahold of him, he doesn't seem to understand that when I say 'We should hang out' I mean me and him, and I mean a date. He seems to think I just want to know if he and the guys are doing something. I just don't even know how to go at this situation. I've never been very good at communicating with guys! If anyone has had a similar experience or any advice on how to deal with this guy, I'd certainly be happy to hear it.
Thanks!
Jess

I have a feeling he knows you want to go on a date with him he is just trying to let you down easy by feigning ignorance about your intentions. The ball is in his court.
Again, thanks so much, I really appreciate the feedback!