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Time to leave him?
| Sat, 03-18-2006 - 8:41am |
Last night I asked my boyfriend if he could pick me up at the bar I was at so I wouldn't have to drink and drive. (St.Pattys day). Guess what he didn't. I am thinking that he just does not care about me. Is it time for me to move on and find a man that really does care? I just am so confused. He didn't give a reason or anything.. just told me to be careful driving cause there are road blocks out.. Duh that is why I wanted you to pick me up.. grrr.

Yes he has had done this before. It is just lately it has gotten worse. I think it is time to move on. I mean if a guy doesn't show that he cares for me than I really don't think I want him. It just has been a long time with this guy.
This is just going to be hard to break up with him. He is not the best boyfriend in the world, but he is a great person and friend. I hope I don't lose his friendship.
The other thing that gets me is if I was one of his male friends asking last night to drive me home he would had done it.
I just can't believe it has come to this after all this time.
It was her choice to go out drinking. A responsible person would have had plans in advance to get home safely rather than making a spur of the moment phone call expecting him to drop everything and pick her up. Her request showed no respect for what he may have had planned for the evening.
He's male, he didn't do things exactly her way - therefore he must be wrong I guess.
This doesn't change the context and question of her post. She's thinking of breaking up with him because she didn't get her way.
From a man's perspective - that is quite the message to send.