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| Thu, 04-06-2006 - 7:00pm |
So, I have been "dating" Todd who is a manager at the restaurant I work at a few nights a week. We are both 26 years old. It has been pretty casual mostly just hanging out, flirting, etc. I started a new job that has kept me busy and it seems that he has been "trying a little harder." Sending me more text messages, being nicer. I guess he sees I might have something going for me so he is putting forth some effort so I stay around. I really do like him and know that he is interested but I don't know that he is giving me all that I want. He just recently went away for a few days for a bachelor party , he wanted to see me the morning before he left and then texted me the next day to tell me what a long day it wasn then again the next to tell me how much fun he was having. He returned late Tuesday afternoon and I wasn't expecting a call, he worked all day yesterday and then sent me a text message when he got off that he had such a long day at work. I called and left a message for him today. Anyway sorry for the rambling. I need to say something to him, like I think it is time we went out on a real date or something along those lines. I am not scared of his answer I just want to know where we stand and if I am wasting my time. I need someone who is willing to be a 100% committed and won't settle for less anymore. I have been too scared to say things in other relationships and it has gotten me nowhere. It is ok to pull over and ask but how do I do it without sounding threatening or scaring him away. I can't scare him away if he is truly interested and doesn't want to lose me, right? Thanks so much!!
Andrea
| Thu, 04-06-2006 - 7:39pm |
