tired of being single....

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Registered: 02-04-2004
tired of being single....
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 5:16pm
and i apparently keep looking for 'love' in the 'wrong places'

any suggestions as to where to meet guys?

 

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Thu, 10-21-2004 - 9:55pm

why do you feel bad for me? i dont need sympathy.

men don't disappear on me real quick - i make the choice of not having the 'rotten apples' around for longer than they need to be.

 

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Thu, 10-21-2004 - 9:56pm

i think those were the words i was looking for.. (prob many have said it)
"you are not alone, and it does suck"

thank you

 

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Registered: 09-05-1998
Fri, 10-22-2004 - 1:04am
I agree! One of the cutest guys on TV now is a carpenter, Ty Pennington, and I dated one in the past,would have gotten more serious if there hadn't been two absolute don'ts in his life-probably not biggies for other women but were for me. The guy I like now works in an office and has great hobbies, and likes cats{He's also British...:)} . The distance is a downer-he is over in the UK, I'm in soggy, hurricane prone Florida....lol? Anyone know of any cat shelters overseas looking for qualified Yanks? Oh well, thought I'd ask, anyway.
anonymous
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Registered: 09-05-1998
Fri, 10-22-2004 - 1:13am
I wanted to try eharmony, but they wanted to put me with older men or men my age... Been there, done that...did not work for me , I am a first born and do better with men younger than me. I already had one dad, that was enough. Otherwise, it's an interesting concept, too bad they do not realize that dating patterns in the different birth orders-first born, second born, middle child and baby- are not the same, though.
anonymous
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Registered: 09-05-1998
Fri, 10-22-2004 - 1:33am
Well as a full figured female, I've experienced the opposite thing-men here seem to prefer skinny, sometime anorexic seeming women, even my now ex...{No, not the British guy, for those who have read my other posts here-my ex was a man who was either my age or older, he was a chef with a bunch of personality issues, go figure-I no longer choose guys like that, though.} Most of the full figured or busty ladies I know are fairly intelligent, it's the skinny ones I've seen who are dumb..Oh well, same results...Years of datelessness! I finally found a great guy, but I sure wish I lived at least on the same continent..Yeah, I am *definitely* working on that, though! I have learned how to be alone, but it is much better to at least have a pet around the house. Pets are a great way to learn to deal with people, too. No, I am serious, people who like animals are *usually* better at getting along with people-and yes, there's always an exception to the rule. Next person on the soap box?
anonymous
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Registered: 07-03-2005
Sun, 07-03-2005 - 2:54pm
Hi, well, I'm tired of being single and I think I really need someone.

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