Together 4 Years, Broken Up 3 Months
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Together 4 Years, Broken Up 3 Months
| Sun, 11-07-2004 - 8:20pm |
My ex and I had been dating for four years, since I was 16. This summer we decided to be friends. There is still chemistry there, we spend alot of time together and even sleep in the same bed at times. I have, in the past 2 months realized just how much I love him, and want him back. Although he says he doesnt want to be with anyone right now. I can't tell if it's just me he does not want to see, or anyone. He has been going out a lot latley and meeting new people. We still see each other at least twice a week, and talk at least twice a day on the phone. I recently told him that it was unfair if things did not have a chance of working out we should not sleep together. Yet we do but at the same time he tells me he doesn't want to give any wrong signals because he knows it upsets me. Even though he will not directly tell me that there is not a chance. Which leads me to think that there is. I've let him know how I feel and he won't tell me anything, or say he does not know what to say. I don't want for him to end up pushing me away because I keep bringing the two of us up, but at the same time I don't want him to forget that I am here waiting for him. We live sixty miles apart which at first he claimed was a big part of us ending what we had. I have thought about moving there, and even more so recently. Should I, and take the risk that I might end up alone? Or should I wait and see what develops with me living far away? When we are together or apart is is evident he still has feelings for me. I'm just so confused on what I should or shouldn't do to scare him off, and get him back.
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Thanks

Honey, you are alone...you're both dragging out the split...it's making it harder, not easier to move on with your lives.