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| Tue, 08-23-2005 - 1:53pm |
I am in a long-distance relationship, and he is trying to arrange to move back shortly. However, in the meantime, his phone calls have dropped to practically nothing. Everything is fine when we talk...he says he loves me, misses me, can't wait to come home.
Should I chalk it up to his stress of finding a new job, leaving his old one, packing working etc and be patient until he returns, or is this likely a sign that he is losing interest? Bottom line; is there such a thing as "too busy" or am I just making excuses for him?

Thanks for getting back to me.
Our history, as brief as I can make it is: we met online last October, talked for awhile, met in December. He lost his job in January and the only one he could find was out of the country. After only a few dates, I didn't think it was fair to ask him to pass it up.
He left in early March. He wanted to stay exclusive, we both said we loved each other, he's been back to visit twice...we've managed to work through most everything thus far. He plans to move back in a few weeks; probably another month, maybe 2 at most.
I really truly think he is "the one" but this one stumbling block keeps making me question how much of a priority I am for him. I want to be fair, give him space and be supportive, but I also don't want to make excuses for him...
I think
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