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too sexy, too soon??
| Mon, 10-11-2004 - 12:20am |
Hi
I am totally committed to building a healthy relationship in my life and trusting my insctincts!!!-- Goodness knows I've had too many unhealthy ones. I am in my late 50s and think it is about time to go for waht i want and deserve. I've recently connected with someone--online and wanted to meet as soon as possible so I can decide in person if I want to continue what at first seemed like a nice connection. We have a date to meet for next weekend--One week after our initial contact--that is good. However, it seems that while this guy says many things i like and we've been flirting a bit, he is also talking A LOT about sex talking in very intimate ways. One things he says he really wants me to know is that he is a very good kisser and wants to know where i like being touched and continues to aksed me about different intimate places. His handle is sexydude--he is 55. hey i love sex and it is an important part of a relationship for me and i love the flirting we have been doing but this has moved to SEX before we've even met. The first place i want to be touched when first getting to know someone is my heart, my soul and my mind. I am now thinking about just cancelling with this guy and tell him just that. Based on this-i don't think he is interested in building a healthy relatinship and soul mate, but only wants a sexmate.
I am totally committed to building a healthy relationship in my life and trusting my insctincts!!!-- Goodness knows I've had too many unhealthy ones. I am in my late 50s and think it is about time to go for waht i want and deserve. I've recently connected with someone--online and wanted to meet as soon as possible so I can decide in person if I want to continue what at first seemed like a nice connection. We have a date to meet for next weekend--One week after our initial contact--that is good. However, it seems that while this guy says many things i like and we've been flirting a bit, he is also talking A LOT about sex talking in very intimate ways. One things he says he really wants me to know is that he is a very good kisser and wants to know where i like being touched and continues to aksed me about different intimate places. His handle is sexydude--he is 55. hey i love sex and it is an important part of a relationship for me and i love the flirting we have been doing but this has moved to SEX before we've even met. The first place i want to be touched when first getting to know someone is my heart, my soul and my mind. I am now thinking about just cancelling with this guy and tell him just that. Based on this-i don't think he is interested in building a healthy relatinship and soul mate, but only wants a sexmate.
So, would love some feedback on what my instincts are telling me--should i just drop this guy NOW or am I being too quick.
Thanks

I'd be weary of him talking that soon about sex.
Sheri
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
boy I was nervous about meeting him--and so glad that I just followed how i felt-That felt very powerful.. Usually i dismiss my feelings and analyze it to death and walk right in--to the worng relatinships.
Thanks everyone.