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Too Soon???
| Wed, 05-03-2006 - 1:18pm |
Well...known this guy for a while and it was a long, confusing, journey but we are finally dating. Its only been official for a couple of days...he told me he loved me last night. Now, a little over a week ago when we were discussing our feelings for one another, he said he had slowly been falling in love with me since we met, but still when he said it last night it really took me by suprise. I said it back, but I'm not sure if I did it just because its natural or because I really meant it. I'm not sure what to do...any advice will be greatly appriciated.

Love is a big word - i'd advise the two of you to just keep dating and getting to know each other in a romantic context - no pressure, no big love protestations.
try to get across that since it's been such a difficult journey to get to this point you want to take it slow so that it doesn't burn itself out too quickly.