Torn between 2 lovers

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Registered: 05-09-2004
Torn between 2 lovers
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:41am
I've been dating 2 guys that are ok, The first(mike) guy he has a woman so i don't see him as much and he knows that I don't really want to be bothered with him too much because he has a woman and I know she's good to him, The other guy(nick) he's single but he's busy all the time,but he find a way to keep in touch with me. The problem is a month ago me and Nick were at my moms chillin in the parking lot talking, and then Mike pops up around my moms way (he hangs over my moms way) and see me and Nick in the car. 2 days later Mike calls me and was upset and said, that i need to stop messing with dudes in the same hood, but Nick don't hang around there he lives up the street from my mom and he's always on the go. Mike then said I know Nick, so you shouldn't be talking to him ,you can talk to any one but don't talk to anybody I know or who I say what's up to or whatever,( mike and nick only say whats up to one another they don't hang with one another they just speak and that's it. I told Mike why should he care he has a woman,and he can't have his cake and eat it too. My question is should I stop talking to Nick because Mike says that he speaks to him, or should I continue to talk to Nick. And also I don't want to get a reputation over some guys. Should I date 2 guys that kinda speak(say hi) to one another and kind of close in the area?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 5:14pm
ptlover....

Like the header of your post (which was actually a hit song for a lady named Mary McGregor back in the 70s)...there's no reason to be "torn between 2 lovers"---especially when Mike has another 'babe' on the side.

Tell him to keep his opinions to himself. You AREN'T his (or anybody's) property.

As for dating Nick...he doesn't sound like a 'keeper' to me! Anybody who is ON THE GO that much probably won't have a lot of time for you?

Pianoguy