tough love to understand

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2004
tough love to understand
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Sat, 07-10-2004 - 7:14pm
Hi everyone,

I have dated a man for 5 months. During this time, he never calls me unless sending text message to me to ask me out or check me once a week. Also, we don't go out everyweek. Could you give me ideas why he never calls me, and just send text message? Thanks.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 07-10-2004 - 8:14pm
Why don't you ask him?

He evidently doesn't want to get more involved. If you want more, you might have to search around more for a guy who wants the same as you want. good luck

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Sat, 07-10-2004 - 9:57pm
I think this guy is making sure you're available to him and that's why he texts to check you up once a week. He seems cheap and perhaps he's dating other women as well. Why waste time with this losser when you could be with a man who treats you well? Remember that men and people for that matter treat you how you allow them to treat you. Probably since the beginning you didn't say a thing about his lack of initiative and involvement in the relationship and he got very comfy with his not planning but making sure you are available to him every time he wants. Dump him.