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| Thu, 03-30-2006 - 11:18am |
Snogged a guy I've liked for a while last week, we slept in the same bed together but that was all.
Problem and theres always a problem, I went out with a guy he works with last year for 3 mths in fact they share an office just the two of them. I met this guy thru my ex and liked him from the offset. Split up with other guy 10mths ago who turned out to be a truly horrible person and guy I snogged doesn't think much of him either. (in fact can't stand him)
Guy I snogged was lovely next morning told me he was glad I stayed and he fancied me too when I was seeing horrible guy. Haven't seen him in a week a bit of texting but he's made no effort to ask me out or see me again even tho I suggested a drink this week but its thurs evening and unlikely to hear from him at this stage.
I can totally understand if in the cold light of day he had second thoughts, I mean he's seen me with horrible guy as a couple, knows we went on holidays together etc - I think he is interested but probably thinks the situation is too messy and doesn't want to get involved. Plus theres the sex thing, do you think he just thinks its icky that horrible guy was with me first!!!
So unfair its not my fault I met horrible guy first, its all a question of timings really!!!

You never really know what's going on in someone's heart, head, life, etc. It's possible other things may be going on for him right now that takes precedence.