A Trust Issue that needs help!
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A Trust Issue that needs help!
| Fri, 10-28-2005 - 1:08pm |
I've already talked about me and my boyfriend of 2 months breaking up. We have been broken up for 2 weeks now. Well, he finally told me that the reason that we broke up is because he doesn't think he can trust me. He'll have to learn to trust me again. He says that he still wants to be with me, and he loves me, and wants things to work out, but he needs time to think and learn to trust me. The reason he has to trust me because I played a joke on him one time and he took it too seriously. But, he said that he promises to come back one day and that he will trust me again one day. We still talk and I still go visit him at least once a week. He still wants to see me and talk to me. What should I do? Should I wait for him and continue to see him and talk to him? Is there anything that I could do to show him that he can trust me? Please Help!!
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| Fri, 10-28-2005 - 2:26pm |
No you shouldn't wait for him to come around. If he feels he'll be able to trust you in the future, then he should be able to trust you now. He's angry over a joke? He is super sensitive. Do you want to be in a relationship where you have to walk on eggshells and not be yourself. Anyway, it sounds to me like he's stringing you along with the promise of a future relationship. He may be trying to turn this into an FWB type deal. If you wait around for him and continue to "see him as a friend", then the joke will be on you.

