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Two Ryans!
| Fri, 11-24-2006 - 12:19am |
Hi everyone!
I have a bit of a problem. I've been talking to this guy off and on for the past few months. He found me through myspace b/c I went to the high school that his ex went to. It turns out that we actually knew each other. A few months ago he asked me to hang out with him and we made plans. Well I backed out of them somewhat b/c I felt odd that we had been talking online only. He seemed to understand and we left it at that.
Every once in a while we'd say things to each other on myspace. Meanwhile I was and still am getting over someone else. My ex still means a lot to me and I've finally come to terms with the fact that our relationship will not work out. I know that I'm always going to love him, but again I know that it won't work out just b/c as my friend put it "it is a toxic relationship that just won't work again."
The other day I was at Target in town walking out when I see the guy mentioned above (not my ex). At first I thought he was an old friend from high school but he looked different still. We were looking at each other for a while and he didn't say anything to me so I walked to my car and drove off. That night he left me a message asking if that was me. We hadn't seen each other in person in a long time but of course had seen pictures of each other on myspace. So we began talking again and we set up a drink date this past monday. I had to work that day and we were gonna meet up afterward. I called him and he didn't pick up so I left him a message. I had said 9 would be good for me that night. He never called me back. The next day he left me a message on myspace saying that he was sick and he didn't recieve my message until 8 that morning b/c he was asleep. I had called him at almost 8 the night before. I didn't really like that at all for obvious reasons. He should have called me to let me know that he thought he couldn't meet up with me or left me a message or something. So he asked if I'd wanna do something together soon so I said "I suppose." He could tell I didn't really like what happened so we haven't talked since tuesday or planned anything new. I also come to realize that he is in the same social circle as my ex; therefore leading me to possibly run into my ex which right now I think it's best that we don't see each other at all.
So my dilemma is that I think that this new guy is really cool, but he sometimes gives me the "I'm a flake" feeling. Also that I could possibly run into my ex and not to mention that they are both named Ryan. I'm not sure if I should just not pursue him at all for those reasons eventhough I kind of want to just b/c he does interest me. Help!
Steph
I have a bit of a problem. I've been talking to this guy off and on for the past few months. He found me through myspace b/c I went to the high school that his ex went to. It turns out that we actually knew each other. A few months ago he asked me to hang out with him and we made plans. Well I backed out of them somewhat b/c I felt odd that we had been talking online only. He seemed to understand and we left it at that.
Every once in a while we'd say things to each other on myspace. Meanwhile I was and still am getting over someone else. My ex still means a lot to me and I've finally come to terms with the fact that our relationship will not work out. I know that I'm always going to love him, but again I know that it won't work out just b/c as my friend put it "it is a toxic relationship that just won't work again."
The other day I was at Target in town walking out when I see the guy mentioned above (not my ex). At first I thought he was an old friend from high school but he looked different still. We were looking at each other for a while and he didn't say anything to me so I walked to my car and drove off. That night he left me a message asking if that was me. We hadn't seen each other in person in a long time but of course had seen pictures of each other on myspace. So we began talking again and we set up a drink date this past monday. I had to work that day and we were gonna meet up afterward. I called him and he didn't pick up so I left him a message. I had said 9 would be good for me that night. He never called me back. The next day he left me a message on myspace saying that he was sick and he didn't recieve my message until 8 that morning b/c he was asleep. I had called him at almost 8 the night before. I didn't really like that at all for obvious reasons. He should have called me to let me know that he thought he couldn't meet up with me or left me a message or something. So he asked if I'd wanna do something together soon so I said "I suppose." He could tell I didn't really like what happened so we haven't talked since tuesday or planned anything new. I also come to realize that he is in the same social circle as my ex; therefore leading me to possibly run into my ex which right now I think it's best that we don't see each other at all.
So my dilemma is that I think that this new guy is really cool, but he sometimes gives me the "I'm a flake" feeling. Also that I could possibly run into my ex and not to mention that they are both named Ryan. I'm not sure if I should just not pursue him at all for those reasons eventhough I kind of want to just b/c he does interest me. Help!
Steph
