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Typical male?
| Fri, 10-13-2006 - 12:50am |
If a guy likes to talk about sex or is always referring to/making sexual statements does that mean he's not boyfriend material. Even if he really is a good guy?

There's clearly a whole lot more that determines whether a guy is "boyfriend material"... starting with is he INTERESTED in dating you, and is he interested in being ANYONE's boyfriend now or in the future?
In terms of him being a sex talker, I personally would be annoyed and offended if a man made sexual jokes, comments and suggestions toward me all the time. Usually, someone who talks that way is testing the waters to see how accepting you are and what his chances might be of getting you into bed. Not my cup of tea.
There's always the chance that he's putting on some kind of show for you because he has gotten the idea that dirty talk is funny, or makes him seem more appealing, cool or macho. If you really think he's a good guy, in spite of his potty mouth, then I would just tell him to lay off the dirty talk and jokes. You don't find it funny or cool and it's inappropriate. If he persists then, no, he's definitely not boyfriend OR friend material. Just steer clear of him altogether.
Good luck.
Thanks for the advice guys, I'll definatly take them into consideration!
Well I would say you're not a prude but it makes you a bit uncomfortable that he