Uh oh..another married man

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-24-2004
Uh oh..another married man
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Mon, 05-03-2004 - 6:34pm
Recently someone just confessed his strong desire to know me and be with me. He was able to keep his identity for as long as he could, but then fate has its ways. I found out that he is a married man. I am just confused. My previous relationship has been with a married man, now here is another one. Not only that, most of my suitors are married. I dont know. I don't even show interest in them. But perhaps that disinterest keeps them to a challenge. I swore off having an illicit affair since it caused me much pain. I think that I am ready for a new relationship (its been 3 years), but then being wooed by married men scares me off.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 7:31pm
I have a personal rule that says, "get out of one thing before you get into another. It's less complicated that way."

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 9:09pm

Surprised? You should be disgusted - this guy not only is a cheater (great moral fiber), he tried to keep his marital status from you.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2004
Tue, 05-04-2004 - 11:37am
I've never been involved with a married man so I cannot advise you through experience. However, you stated that your last relationship was with a married man and it was very painful. I believe you answered you own problem right there. Run away from this man! And don't look back! Do not put yourself through that pain again! Leave now before it gets worse.