Understanding his emotions
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Understanding his emotions
| Tue, 05-11-2004 - 4:56pm |
I have been 'Seeing' a guy for about a month. We have never offically been out on a date, but i have been over to his house a couple times. It has been a very slow moving relationship, as he is very busy, as am I. His father had a stroke over the weekend, and I left a message for him letting him know that i would be here for him if he needed anything or wanted to talk. On sunday evening he called me and told me that he needed me and that he was very drunk and could not drive home from the bar that he was at. I picked him up and took care of him until he sobered up. He then told me that he had feelings for me and that he cared about me, even though he didnt always show it. I consoled him as he cried in my arms about his father. I am very suprised that i was the person that he called. He has many friends but he chose me to call. What is my next move, if any. I feel like this brought us closer together. Thanks
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| Tue, 05-11-2004 - 5:03pm |
He is in emotional turmoil right now. I can't tell you why you were the one he called (he may have tried others first). Just be aware that his emotional state and family situation don't really make for a great time to be starting a relationship. That may not be uppermost in his mind right now, nor should it be, so please keep that in mind. Be there for him as a friend and take the rest slowly. That's my advice. Good luck.
