Unsure if I'm happy...
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Unsure if I'm happy...
| Tue, 08-17-2004 - 2:21pm |
How can I assure my boyfriend that I'm not the type of girl to cheat on him and that I'm not lying to him? He's had a history of bad relationships in his past with cheating on both his and her part, but since he's met me, he has no desire to cheat. He say's that I'm the one he wants to spend his life with and he said he could trust me, but he still has a small idea that all girls are the same. I have never had a boyfriend, sex, or anything before I met him and I am a firm believer that cheaters don't deserve their lover. We were talking last night and he made a comment that I have no feelings or emotions. I explained to him that my heart feels everything I'm feeling, I just don't like people seeing my feelings. I'm not the type of person to cry infront of anyone or raise my voice to anyone. Another question I have is how can I start showing my feelings and my emotions when I am with him or with people who are close to me? I know it's not healthy to keep the way I feel bottled in for so long, so any advice on that would help greatly.
We usually have an awesome relationship most of the time, but something else that has been getting to me is that he finds ways to make it sound like I'm lying. I will admit that I have lied only because he didn't believe the truth. He still continues to think that I'm lying when I haven't been. Please help, anyone. I'm looking for advice on these issues that are starting to eat away at our relationship. Thanks!

Why stay with someone like that?
On another note, you are who you are and he needs to accept that. If you are not comfortable showing a lot of emotion, then honey, that's you. You are only going to change if you WANT to change. I don't see why you would feel affectionate to ANYONE who's constantly calling you a liar.
If you're unsure about your happiness, you're not happy.