Unusual Situation

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Unusual Situation
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Fri, 04-06-2007 - 5:45pm

I hope someone can help me with some feedback. I am in a very unusual situation in my life and have been for years. As yogagirl knows, I am currently being victimized by a group of men. I rejected one of them many years ago and after I attempted to get a restraining order my life became very violent with home vandalism, danger on the roadways with cars all of a sudden getting too close to me and swerving all around me and and prank calls. The guy who I wanted to get a restraining order against is rich and actually hired men to date me. Sick as it sounds, it is true. This way he can via a third party find out more about me and make sure that my dating experiences end up bad and I am abused mentally and eventually I am sure, physically abused. Why? Because he is disturbed and needs to be put in jail. I am trying to get these guys arrested and report any suspicious activity to the police. I have written the State Atty's office for help and so on.

When I think about my future sometimes I envision having a full life again. When I do think about having a full life again, of course dating is involved and meeting new people. My concern is that if I do date someone one day he will get physically hurt because of these sick people. I tend to be a little "worry wartish" and protective over people I care about. Sure, the jerks could end up in jail, but we all know that if someone wants to hurt you while they are in jail, they can still make it happen. It doesn't consume my thoughts, but it is "there". I would be very distraught if someone I ended up dating and caring for got hurt because of these schmucks. I would make sure that they paid for it and they would be the first on my list to have investigated, but it doesn't take away the "what if?"

I'm sure not many of you have lived this situation, but if you have any advice to offer or words of wisdom I would greatly appreciate it.

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Registered: 07-20-2006
Fri, 04-06-2007 - 6:49pm
Goodness, have you ever thought about relocating and starting over in a new place? It can be exciting and in your situation, may be very helpful. Definitely purse the legal aspects of this as well, but I think it would also behoove you to take protective measures by moving as far as you are comfortable with. At least for a period of time...
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Fri, 04-06-2007 - 9:59pm
I agree, I plan on moving after all the legal details are over, jail and civil proceedings. But I need to finish it all up here, in South Florida. I would hate to move only to find out that through their nasty tentacles they found me in another state and then I would have to prove interstate stalking in addition to intrastate stalking.
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Registered: 09-19-2002
Sat, 04-07-2007 - 2:41am
What is up with that kind of behavior (theirs not yours)??... I'm sorry you're in such a terrible situation. People are just fricken crazy! I really hope it all works out for you and that you will find somewhere safe soon.
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sat, 04-07-2007 - 11:41am

What is up, huh? Good question. I have been trying to understand their minds as well as the people who allow them to do this to others, not just me. You see, these guys are surgeons and are very intelligent men who happen to be criminals at heart. The main guy is a very rich doctor and people in S. Florida regard doctors like celebrities, they can do no wrong and they only take on the doctors' point of view. He became obsessed with me because he thought I was a certain woman who he heard was going to go into "business" with him, but the "business" is a crime masked as a PR stunt and I am not that woman.

Many people who help these guys are senior citizens, so it is kind of disgusting that at their age they partake in hurting others. I'll call the main guy crazy doctor #1. He has developed kind of a "gang" and he is the war lord. These doctors have their day jobs and on the side they terrorize people. I am not the only woman this doctor has done this to. He, alledgedly, used to go to swing clubs down here and met a woman in Ft. Lauderdale who he also became obsessed with (little man, big ego) and when she felt it had run its course (their fling) he turned the tables on her as well. He destroyed her career and her private life. They lie to people about why they need to butt in your business and people just do their bidding down here. It is the sickest thing I've ever seen and I don't have much respect for the people of Florida. They are mindless, greedy fools who, in the end, will suffer because these doctors don't appreciate "loyalty" by their stooges. In the end they always hurt the ones who help them, just so they know they are also vulnerable to their attacks, in case they feel like confessing to the police. So I have been alone in this for a while and because everyone down here is a wimp, and let them get away with hurting people for years, I have a bigger battle. Also, the MD after their name grants them instant credibility over any woman. They hire felons to do their dirty work, like guys who have been already arrested for assault, rape, battery so that it looks like you just came across a criminal randomly.

I plan on putting them in jail and stripping them of their licenses so that they cannot use their profession to hurt people in the hospitals anymore. And while I am beleaguered I feel I am gaining ground each day.

Thanks for asking. Be happy you are not me.